Tokai, Shirley

September 17, 2025

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Date of Service: September 26, 2025

SHIRLEY JOYCE TOKAI, of Lethbridge, AB, formally of Picture Butte, beloved wife of the late Joseph Tokai, passed away at home on Wednesday, September 17, 2025, at the age of 87 years.

Shirley is survived by her children; Doug of Lethbridge, Brenda (Ray) of Lethbridge, Ron (Richelle) of Picture Butte, Brian (Darlene) of Lethbridge, Randy of Sorrento, BC, and Sandra of Picture Butte; as well as 14 grandchildren, eight great-grandchildren and two great-great-grandchildren. Shirley is also survived by her brother, Howard (Lana) Tonge; sister-in-law, Brigitte; and numerous nieces and nephews.

Shirley was predeceased by her husband Joseph, her son, Gary; grandson, Derek; son-in-law, Dan; parents, Bert and Tina; sisters, Donna, Sharon and Joan; brothers, Harold, Stewart and Dale.

A Celebration of life will be held at CORNERSTONE FUNERAL HOME, 2825 32 Street S, Lethbridge, on Friday, September 26, 2025 at 11:00 with Pat Siedlecki to officiate.

We are sorry to hear of the passing of Shirley. On behalf of my mother, Marie Holthe, my wife, Cynthia, and myself, please accept our condolences.

Clancy Holthe, September 30, 2025

Our thoughts are with you all. With Our Sympathy to all the family of Shirley.

Don and Colleen Shimek , September 28, 2025

So sorry for your loss, my deepest condolences.

Cal Drake, September 26, 2025

Remember when...The memories will carry you through the hard days...until you meet again. Thinking of you all.

Debra Lewis, September 23, 2025

Thinking of you all, so many fond memories of Shirley and your entire family. Hugs to you all. Rest in peace Shirley. 🤍

Cari Bezooyen , September 23, 2025

Sincere condolences to the family of my cousin Shirley.

LeRoy Peterson, September 23, 2025

Sincere condolences to Shirley’s family, I always enjoyed working with her at Sears.

Peggy Nakama, September 23, 2025

Sending Love out to Shirley’s most precious family and friends. I had the privilege of having a coffee with Shirley at the United church Thrift shop in Butte, about a month ago. She is always a pleasure to have a conversation with. May You rest in peace Shirley

Shawn & Nicki Murray, September 22, 2025

My condolences to all of Shirley's family. What a great wit and spirit. A life well lived for sure.

Sue Ruaben, September 22, 2025

So sorry to hear of Shirley’s passing. Sending condolences from our family to yours❤️‍🩹

Melanie Winters, September 22, 2025

Our sincere condolences on the passing of Shirley. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Tokai family.

Louise Reiter & Family, September 21, 2025

To all of Shirley’s family, please accept my deepest sympathy on the passing of your dear mother!!

Betty Lou Mazutinec, September 20, 2025

We were so saddened to hear of your beloved mom’s passing. We have so many great memories of her and your dad. Our deepest condolences to all of you.

Vinko and Gloria Nemecek, September 20, 2025

I am so saddened to hear this. Shirley was such a wonderful lady. She will be missed dearly. Theresa

Theresa Wiberg, September 20, 2025

Sincere sympathies to your family on the passing of your mom Shirley. Shirley always had a smile or a laugh or a quick wit in her conversations. She will be missed by a lot of folks. RIP dear Shirley.

Bonnie Richardson, September 20, 2025

We’re so sorry for the families loss

Perry Ruaben , September 20, 2025

My deepest condolences to your family, Shirley was an amazing person and will be forever missed.

Arlene Vance Steward, September 19, 2025

My most sincere and heartfelt sympathies to each of Shirley’s family members. I’m sure Joe was happy to greet her!

Jeanette Heinen, September 19, 2025

Tokai, Shirley

Date of Service: September 26, 2025

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