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Ring, Hilary
Born: June 4, 1949
Passed: September 12, 2020
Service:
Tuesday, September 22, 2020 at 12:00 a.m.

Ring, Hilary

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HILARY RING (nee Routledge) passed away peacefully at home with her husband, Len, at her side.

HILARY RING (nee Routledge) passed away peacefully at home with her husband, Len, at her side. 

She was predeceased by her parents, Joe & Marie Routledge and is survived by her sister Glynis Wood of Calgary, Len (her husband of 50 years), their sons Travis (Kayla) of Nanton and Scott (Kim) of Lakeside Montana.  She was also the loving and caring grandmother to Mason, Kelsie, Charlise, and Quaid. 

Hilary was born in Sunderland, England and home was Seaham Harbour, County of Durham a typical coal-mining town in northern England.  Marie and Joe were both veterans of the RAF in WWII and Joe was an electrician in the mine.  The stiff upper lip British mentality and the "Keep Calm and Carry On" attitude that Marie & Joe instilled in Hilary would come to serve her well during her life.  In 1955 they emigrated to Canada, first Joe and shortly thereafter Marie and the 2 girls.  Joe worked at the Palliser Hotel and the Chateau Lake Louise but then became postmaster at Lake Louise, where Hilary spent the majority of her childhood.  In 1965 they moved to High River where Hilary met her husband to be.  Hilary and Len were married in 1970 and moved to Lethbridge, later Taber.  In 1973 they moved to Raymond where they raised their family, moving back to Lethbridge in 1996.  

Hilary was an accomplished, seamstress, quilter, and needlepoint artist and many people have wonderful homemade treasures to remember her by.  But her greatest gift to the world was being a devoted wife and mother and later grandmother to those in her family.  For about 40 years she was a great hockey Mom to her 2 sons and grandson Mason, then transitioned to being a volleyball Mom to Kelsie and Charlise and a multi-sport baseball/soccer/basketball Mom to Quaid.  

In 1981 Hilary was diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease but her wonderful British heritage never let that limit her.  She and Len loved to travel and she was able to return to England and Sicily to visit relatives and see her old original home as well as take a long-anticipated RV road trip to PEI and back.  She was able to cross those 2 and "get a Mercedes SL" off her bucket list.  

Hilary was a hero to many she knew and will be missed by all.  The girls from Raymond supported her all these years and she developed many warm relationships with the staff at the Movement Disorders Clinic in Calgary and more recently, the Wednesday group at the Bridges day program in Lethbridge.  

A Funeral Service will be held at CORNERSTONE FUNERAL HOME, 2825 - 32 Street South, Lethbridge, on Tuesday, September 22nd at 11:00 A.M., with Wally & Alison Chinn officiating.  Hilary will be laid to rest in Mountain View Cemetery. Due to COVID-19 restrictions, kindly RSVP your attendance to Cornerstone. Seating will be limited to 90 guests. Facemasks are mandatory and will be available upon entry.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Parkinson Association of Alberta, 120, 6835 Railway St SE, Calgary, AB T2H 2V6 or any other charity of your choice.

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I'm sorry for your loss and know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Joy Paxman, September 23, 2020

Sincere sympathies to Len and family. Hope this day is filled with special memories as you pay tribute to this lovely lady! May there be peace in the days ahead as special times are remembered.

Marg Heggie, September 22, 2020

My deepest sympathy to you, Len and to your dear boys and their families in the loss of your dear Hilary! My heart felt very sad when I got your call on Sunday that Hilary passed away. Having known Hilary for 40 years and witnessing her very first struggles after a Parkinson diagnosis has made me realize how tough and determined Hilary was during all those years. With such difficult health challenge, together you both managed so well to raise your boys and accomplished so much. I admired you both for your courage and positive attitude. I have many great memories of our coffee times as young moms raising our children in Raymond. Those were special times that I will always cherish. Sending you many hugs as we can't hug now in person. Love from Maria and Norm Collard

Maria Collard, September 19, 2020

Len, Travis, and Scott.... Our thoughts are prayers are with you and the entire family.

Jerry & Valerie Johnson, September 18, 2020

My condolences to Len and Family. Neighbour in #15 Eagle Ridge condominiums

John McTaggart, September 18, 2020

We were sorry to hear of Hilary's passing. We are thinking of your family and hope you will find peace and comfort at this difficult time.

Terry & Rita Smith, September 17, 2020

Thank you for letting us know, and sending this link so we can learn about her life. While you will miss Hilary tremendously, we also know that despite her 'stiff-upper-lip' she did suffer with her Parkinson disease. It is a difficult condition that takes more and more away over time. Despite this she maintained her good humour and memories better than many. My sincere condolences.

Zelma Kiss, September 17, 2020

The Members of SMSC would like to express our condolences for your loss Len. Hilary will be remembered at the club as a wonderful addition to the club and a great crew member on your Hobie 16.

St. Mary's Sailing Club, September 17, 2020

Len and Family, We are very sad to hear of Hilary's passing. We are thinking of you all at this very difficult time. Take Care

Mark & Sharon Peterson (Fairmont neighbor), September 17, 2020

I'm very sorry to hear the sad news about Hilary. I got to know her well over my years working with Len and the irrigation community. Always a great trooper, she never let her journey with Parkinson's get her down. Hilary was very much loved and respected by all who knew her. She will be missed by all. My condolences to Len and his family during this challenging time.

John Tackaberry, September 17, 2020

our sincere condolence during this time and our prayers are with you and your family

Francis & Judy First Charger, September 16, 2020

My sympathies to the Ring family. I have the best of memories of an amazing woman who continued to live life despite the challenges.

Clayne Steed, September 16, 2020

My heart goes out to the Ring family. So sad to hear this news today and I wish the best for all of the family in this difficult time. Sending you all of my love!

Stephen Romeike, September 15, 2020

Condolences from Missouri. Len, Travis, Scott and Loved ones...our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I have fond memories of your mother/wife. Always so loving and kind.

Jon Coppieters, September 15, 2020