Friday, September 26, 2025 at 12:00 a.m.
Shirley Tokai
Shirley is survived by her children; Doug of Lethbridge, Brenda (Ray) of Lethbridge, Ron (Richelle) of Picture Butte, Brian (Darlene) of Lethbridge, Randy of Sorrento, BC, and Sandra of Picture Butte; as well as 14 grandchildren, eight great-grandchildren and two great-great-grandchildren. Shirley is also survived by her brother, Howard (Lana) Tonge; sister-in-law, Brigitte; and numerous nieces and nephews.
Shirley is survived by her children; Doug of Lethbridge, Brenda (Ray) of Lethbridge, Ron (Richelle) of Picture Butte, Brian (Darlene) of Lethbridge, Randy of Sorrento, BC, and Sandra of Picture Butte; as well as 14 grandchildren, eight great-grandchildren and two great-great-grandchildren. Shirley is also survived by her brother, Howard (Lana) Tonge; sister-in-law, Brigitte; and numerous nieces and nephews.
Shirley was predeceased by her husband Joseph, her son, Gary; grandson, Derek; son-in-law, Dan; parents, Bert and Tina; sisters, Donna, Sharon and Joan; brothers, Harold, Stewart and Dale.
A Celebration of life will be held at CORNERSTONE FUNERAL HOME, 2825 32 Street S, Lethbridge, on Friday, September 26, 2025 at 11:00 with Pat Siedlecki to officiate.
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We are sorry to hear of the passing of Shirley. On behalf of my mother, Marie Holthe, my wife, Cynthia, and myself, please accept our condolences.
Our thoughts are with you all. With Our Sympathy to all the family of Shirley.
So sorry for your loss, my deepest condolences.
Remember when...The memories will carry you through the hard days...until you meet again. Thinking of you all.
Thinking of you all, so many fond memories of Shirley and your entire family. Hugs to you all. Rest in peace Shirley. 🤍
Sincere condolences to the family of my cousin Shirley.
Sincere condolences to Shirley’s family, I always enjoyed working with her at Sears.
Sending Love out to Shirley’s most precious family and friends. I had the privilege of having a coffee with Shirley at the United church Thrift shop in Butte, about a month ago. She is always a pleasure to have a conversation with. May You rest in peace Shirley
My condolences to all of Shirley's family. What a great wit and spirit. A life well lived for sure.
So sorry to hear of Shirley’s passing. Sending condolences from our family to yours❤️🩹
Our sincere condolences on the passing of Shirley. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Tokai family.
To all of Shirley’s family, please accept my deepest sympathy on the passing of your dear mother!!
We were so saddened to hear of your beloved mom’s passing. We have so many great memories of her and your dad. Our deepest condolences to all of you.
I am so saddened to hear this. Shirley was such a wonderful lady. She will be missed dearly. Theresa
Sincere sympathies to your family on the passing of your mom Shirley. Shirley always had a smile or a laugh or a quick wit in her conversations. She will be missed by a lot of folks. RIP dear Shirley.
We’re so sorry for the families loss
My deepest condolences to your family, Shirley was an amazing person and will be forever missed.
My most sincere and heartfelt sympathies to each of Shirley’s family members. I’m sure Joe was happy to greet her!